{"id":14532,"date":"2017-05-03T09:58:36","date_gmt":"2017-05-03T09:58:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transfergo.wpengine.com\/fac-bine-limba-romana-in-uk"},"modified":"2024-12-03T13:18:58","modified_gmt":"2024-12-03T13:18:58","slug":"fac-bine-limba-romana-uk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/fac-bine-limba-romana-uk","title":{"rendered":"Fac bine: Limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een UK"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Pleca\u021bi prin str\u0103in\u0103t\u0103\u021bi, limba r\u0103m\u00e2ne un fel de ancor\u0103 \u00een stratul profund al memoriei \u0219i al tradi\u021biilor. Nimic nu-i mai dulce \u0219i mai frumos dec\u00e2t limba ce-o vorbim! Cel pu\u021bin a\u0219a credem noi, cei care o vorbim, dar cei care nu o vorbesc \u0219i o ascult\u0103 au p\u0103reri diferite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De exemplu, o prieten\u0103 mi-a spus c\u0103 a fost chemat\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103, pentru c\u0103 feti\u021ba ei de 5 ani folosea cuvinte <\/span>ur\u00e2te<\/span><\/i>, innaceptabile \u00een \u0219coala englezeasc\u0103. Biata femeie s-a jurat c\u0103 nu vorbe\u0219te ur\u00e2t \u00een cas\u0103, \u0219i nu-\u0219i imagineaz\u0103 cum \u00eengera\u0219ul ei ar putea avea a\u0219a ceva \u00een vocabular.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00centreb\u00e2nd ce a spus… i s-a r\u0103spuns c\u0103 \u00een mod repetat, fiica ei a spus: <\/span>Fac Pipi<\/span><\/i>! I s-a explicat c\u0103 nu-i frumos s\u0103 spun\u0103 <\/span>f**k<\/span><\/i>, dar ea a continuat enervat\u0103, \u0219i mai tare, \u0219i mai clar, <\/span>Fac pe mine<\/span><\/i>!!!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Deci aten\u021bie la ce face\u021bi<\/i> c\u00e2nd sunt urechi engleze\u0219ti prin jur!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alt episod tr\u0103it pe pielea mea: \u00eent\u00e2lnire cu o prieten\u0103 rom\u00e2nc\u0103 \u00een parc, la locul de joac\u0103 al copiilor no\u0219tri \u00eenc\u0103 \u00een pamper\u0219i la vremea aceea. Ei se jucau, noi ne-am luat la taclale. Nu departe,  un alt grup de adolescen\u021bi \u00ee\u0219i vedeau de telefoanele \u0219i bicicletele lor. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Printre ofurile furstr\u0103rilor noastre casnice \u0219i conversa\u021bii despre soacre, am observat c\u0103 liceenii de l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi au \u00eenceput s\u0103 ne priveasc\u0103 lung. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dup\u0103 vreun alt sfert de or\u0103 privirile au devenit din ce \u00een ce mai dispre\u021buitoare… \u00cen treac\u0103t, unul ne-a \u0219optit peste um\u0103r: Pentru dou\u0103 m\u0103mici, vorbi\u021bi foarte ur\u00e2t, mai ales de fa\u021b\u0103 cu copiii! Mi s-a c\u0103scat gura involuntar: noi vorbisem despre cum <\/span>fac<\/span><\/i> eu sarmale, despre cum <\/span>face<\/span><\/i> ea ardei umplu\u021bi, despre cum s\u0103 cultiv\u0103m m\u0103rar \u00een UK \u0219i alte chestii total inofensive. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Nu punem la socoteal\u0103 diada soacr\u0103 \u2013 dracii, c\u0103 nu la ea se refereau!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u00een dulcea limb\u0103 rom\u00e2n\u0103, al doilea cuv\u00e2nt este mereu <\/span>fac<\/span><\/i>. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen urechile fine ale englezilor asupra r\u0103d\u0103cinilor latine str\u0103mo\u0219e\u0219ti, fac<\/i> este F**K. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 v-a disp\u0103rut petul bl\u0103nos \u0219i miorl\u0103itor, v\u0103 rog s\u0103 nu v\u0103 chema\u021bi public pisica: <\/span>pis<\/span><\/i>, <\/span>pis<\/span><\/i>, c\u0103 iar se vor uita cruci\u0219 la voi. O s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 a\u021bi ie\u0219it s\u0103 \u00eenjura\u021bi de mama focului \u00een spa\u021biul comunitar. Nici m\u0103car pe uli\u021ba din spatele casei s\u0103 nu risca\u021bi, \u0219i ei ca \u0219i noi stau dup\u0103 perdele!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Englezii au formele lor de balet social, mult mai dezvoltate dec\u00e2t cele rom\u00e2ne\u0219ti. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i noi aveam interven\u021bii gen: Ba\u021bi \u0219aua s\u0103 priceap\u0103 iapa, dar \u0219eile \u0219i iepele difer\u0103. De exemplu dac\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti cu un englez \u0219i spune uit\u00e2ndu-se \u00een sus: <\/span>interesting<\/span><\/i>…  este semn c\u0103-l plictise\u0219ti, nu c\u0103 spui ceva interesant la care el sau ea, chiar se opresc o clip\u0103 s\u0103 reflecteze. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 te \u00eentreab\u0103 John sau Mary dac\u0103 mai vrei \u00eenc\u0103 o can\u0103 de ceai, ceea ce vor s\u0103 spun\u0103 este c\u0103-i timpul s\u0103 speli putina, s\u0103 pleci, s\u0103 te cari la tine acas\u0103. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rela\u021biile de prietenie cu englezii sunt, cu excep\u021bii desigur, ca un sofisticat balet pe ou\u0103. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mereu trebuie s\u0103 fii foarte atent ce spui s\u0103 nu-i ofensezi. De exemplu, o prieten\u0103 englezoaic\u0103 anuleaz\u0103 o activitate comun\u0103, pe motiv c\u0103 nu are cine s\u0103 stea cu copiii. So\u021bul meu (german!) caut\u0103 s\u0103 ofere o solu\u021bie alternativ\u0103. Prietena intrigat\u0103 \u0219i enervat\u0103 de ajutor, \u00eei r\u0103spunde: <\/span>Niciodat\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 chestionezi motivele celorlal\u021bi<\/span><\/i>! Adic\u0103 dac\u0103 se scuz\u0103, \u00eenghi\u021bi scuza, taci chitic \u0219i-\u021bi vezi de drum, c\u0103 oricum nu-\u021bi spun ei adev\u0103ratul motiv.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 limba nu-i doar limb\u0103, cod al \u00een\u021belegerii, ci este capcana tuturor ne\u00een\u021belegerilor, t\u00e2r\u00e2nd dup\u0103 ea urmele Turnului Babel.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pleca\u021bi prin str\u0103in\u0103t\u0103\u021bi, limba r\u0103m\u00e2ne un fel de ancor\u0103 \u00een stratul profund al memoriei \u0219i al tradi\u021biilor. Nimic nu-i mai dulce \u0219i mai frumos dec\u00e2t limba ce-o vorbim! Cel pu\u021bin a\u0219a credem noi, cei care o vorbim, dar cei care nu o vorbesc \u0219i o ascult\u0103 au p\u0103reri diferite. De exemplu, o prieten\u0103 mi-a spus […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14533,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1322],"tags":[],"business_case_studies_tags":[],"class_list":["post-14532","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-viata-in-strainatate"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Untitled-design-11.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14532","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14532"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14532\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14533"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14532"},{"taxonomy":"business_case_studies_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/business_case_studies_tags?post=14532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}