{"id":13874,"date":"2016-10-20T16:12:52","date_gmt":"2016-10-20T16:12:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transfergo.wpengine.com\/prietenii-tai-unde-sunt-ai-mei-sunt-in-anglia-italia-spania-norvegia"},"modified":"2024-12-03T13:37:11","modified_gmt":"2024-12-03T13:37:11","slug":"prietenii-tai-unde-suntai-mei-sunt-anglia-italia-spania-norvegia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/prietenii-tai-unde-suntai-mei-sunt-anglia-italia-spania-norvegia","title":{"rendered":"Prietenii t\u0103i unde sunt? Ai mei sunt \u00een Anglia, Italia, Spania, Norvegia."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Crescut, p\u00e2n\u0103 pe la vreo opt ani, \u00een comunism, prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd am priceput c\u0103 se poate pleca \u0219i-n alte \u021b\u0103ri a fost pe la \u00eenceputul anilor &#8217;90.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eram prea mic \u0219i nici nu auzisem vorbind, \u00een cas\u0103 sau \u00een grupul de prieteni, despre rom\u00e2ni care plecaser\u0103 sau fugiser\u0103 \u00eenainte de Revolu\u021bie (sau &#8220;revolu\u021bie&#8221;, cum vre\u021bi s\u0103-i spune\u021bi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">A\u0219a c\u0103 am priceput c\u0103 lumea aia larg\u0103 chiar exist\u0103 c\u00e2nd, prin clasa a treia fiind, \u00een prim\u0103vara lui 1990, un grup de francezi ne-a vizitat la \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i ne-a dat ni\u0219te dulciuri \u0219i juc\u0103rii. Evident c\u0103 n-am \u00een\u021beles nimic din ce ne-au spus, noi ne-am ridicat frumos \u00een picioare, \u0219i la \u00eenceput, \u0219i la sf\u00e2r\u0219it, \u0219i am spus \u00een cor bun\u0103 ziua, cum eram dresa\u021bi. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ei ne-au z\u00e2mbit, ne-au m\u00e2ng\u00e2iat pe cre\u0219tet \u0219i ne-au \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit cadouri. De ce \u0219i cum ajunseser\u0103 la noi, n-a\u0219 putea s\u0103 spun. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u021ain minte doar c\u0103 am lins, la propriu, ambalajul napolitanei cu ciocolat\u0103 pe care o primisem, iar micul robo\u021bel de plastic, al c\u0103rui casc\u0103 era deta\u0219abil\u0103, era cea mai minunat\u0103 jucarie pe care o primisem vreodat\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Mai t\u00e2rziu, \u00eentr-un drum spre mare fiind, am f\u0103cut un popas pe marginea drumului, s\u0103 ne mai dezmor\u021bim \u0219i s\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u0103m. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>La un moment dat, o ma\u0219in\u0103 a trecut pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, a \u00eencetinit pu\u021bin, un geam s-a deschis \u0219i de dup\u0103 el a zburat un pachet. Tata l-a luat \u0219i ni l-a adus. Era un pachet cu bomboane. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Noi nu \u00een\u021belegeam ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. <strong>&#8220;Sunt polonezi, ne-a spus tata. V-au v\u0103zut doi copii \u0219i v-au dat bomboane&#8221;. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cDar ce fac polonezii aici?\u201d am \u00eentrebat. \u201cV\u00e2nd fel de fel de lucruri.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dup\u0103 asta, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se trag\u0103 prin blocuri celebrul &#8220;telecablu&#8221;, care ne-a revolu\u021bionat copil\u0103ria \u0219i imaginea despre lumea larg\u0103. Acolo l-am cunoscut pe Piedone, comisarul f\u0103r\u0103 arm\u0103, pe \u021bestoasele ninja \u0219i alte or\u0103tanii \u0219i tot acolo am v\u0103zut prima persoan\u0103 din Brazilia, \u00een videoclipul piesei Lambada. Eram preg\u0103tit suflete\u0219te s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc cu mapamondul!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00cen acela\u0219i timp, \u00eencepusem s\u0103 aud de rude, prieteni, vecini, care o luau la picioru\u0219. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ba prin <strong>Turcia<\/strong>, cu o geant\u0103 de rulmen\u021bi, ca s\u0103 aduc\u0103 blugi \u0219i aur la schimb, ba prin <strong>Ucraina<\/strong>, la munc\u0103 \u00een nu \u0219tiu ce mari combinate, ba prin <strong>Israel<\/strong>. \u021ain minte o poveste cu cineva care se \u00eentorsese din Turcia, cu o dub\u0103 plin\u0103 de produse, \u0219i nici n-a apucat omul s\u0103 parcheze \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i trag\u0103 sufletul, c\u0103 a fost \u00eenconjurat de vecini dornici s\u0103 cumpere. N-a putut sc\u0103pa de ei, a\u0219a c\u0103 a v\u00e2ndut mai toat\u0103 marfa cu strigare, ca la licita\u021bie. Pe atunci, oamenii \u00eenc\u0103 aveau b\u0103nu\u021bi, n-aveau produse.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Apoi, baie\u021bii din genera\u021biile mai mari au \u00eenceput s\u0103 dispar\u0103, unul c\u00e2te unul.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Disp\u0103reau-appreau, disp\u0103reau-ap\u0103reau, \u00eentr-un soi de mi\u0219care secret\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong> Se \u00eentorceau cu haine frumoase, unii cu ma\u0219ini, plini de bani prin toate buzunarele. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C\u00e2nd terminau banii, iar\u0103\u0219i disp\u0103reau. Mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd \u00eemi d\u0103duse \u0219i mie musta\u021ba \u0219i aveam voie s\u0103 casc gura pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei, \u00eei auzeam vorbind de trasee, de treceri riscante prin r\u00e2uri sau peste mun\u021bi, de c\u00e2t\u0103 bog\u0103\u021bie este &#8220;dincolo&#8221; \u0219i c\u00e2t de u\u0219or pui m\u00e2na pe ea. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00cei priveam ca pe ni\u0219te haiduci. Nu erau. Erau doar ni\u0219te tineri dintr-o \u021bar\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 s\u0103lbatic\u0103, ce \u00een\u021belegeau civiliza\u021bia ca pe o invita\u021bie la furt. Iar asta avea s\u0103 ne coste pe to\u021bi, c\u0103ci bun\u0103 imagine ne-am mai f\u0103cut.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Apoi, pe la \u00eenceputurile anilor 2000, un alt val a plecat, mult mai numeros.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Majoritatea spre <strong>Grecia, Germania, Italia sau Spania.<\/strong> Pe ei nu-i vedeam cu anii. St\u0103teau ilegal acolo, dar tolera\u021bi tacit, \u0219i nu-\u0219i permiteau s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103. C\u00e2nd se \u00eentorceau, \u00eens\u0103, cumparau apartamente cum \u00eemi cump\u0103rm eu blugi. <strong>8-10-15 mii de euro<\/strong>, c\u00e2t erau <strong>apartamentele<\/strong> pe atunci, ei \u00eei f\u0103ceau relativ repede.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Eu \u0219i prietenii mei eram \u00eenc\u0103 \u00een \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i, cu foarte mici excep\u021bii, nu ne gandeam niciunul s\u0103 plec\u0103m. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&nbsp;Presa\u021bi de la spate de p\u0103rin\u021bi, ne f\u0103ceam planuri pe la ce facult\u0103\u021bi s\u0103 ne \u00eenscriem. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pe vremea p\u0103rin\u021bilor, a fi absolvent de studii superioare \u00ee\u021bi oferea un anumit statut \u00een societate \u0219i o p\u00e2ine bun\u0103. Dar asta pe vremea lor. Am f\u0103cut \u0219i noi ce am putut, sau pe unde am prins locuri libere \u00een fabricile de diplome. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><strong>Dup\u0103 ce am facut-o \u0219i pe asta, a fost ciudat s\u0103 ne auzim \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-ne: \u021bi-ai luat \u0219omajul?<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Cu un pic de ru\u0219ine, a\u0219a cum \u0219ade bine unui proasp\u0103t absolvent de facultate, fete \u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bi, ne \u00eent\u00e2lneam la r\u00e2nd la po\u0219t\u0103, la \u0219omaj.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Via\u021ba a mers \u00eenainte \u0219i ne-am f\u0103cut fiecare un rost, dup\u0103 puteri \u0219i dup\u0103 noroc. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Valurile celor care plecau <strong>\u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate<\/strong> tot se \u00eengro\u0219au \u0219i au \u00eenceput s\u0103 dispar\u0103 \u0219i din grupul nostru c\u00e2te unul-doi. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ba \u00eencepuser\u0103m s\u0103-i auzim \u0219i pe \u0103\u0219tia mai mici, care erau prin licee: m\u0103 doare-n basc\u0103 de \u0219coal\u0103, termin \u0219i m\u0103 duc la mama (v\u0103rul, prietenul) \u00een Italia!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Noi n-am plecat. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Abia ce ne a\u0219ezaser\u0103m creditele ipotecare la g\u00e2t, cum s\u0103 plec\u0103m? &#8220;Rom\u00e2nia nu este afectat\u0103 de criz\u0103!&#8221;, a zis, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, pre\u0219edintele la televizor. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nu dup\u0103 mult\u0103 vreme, c\u00e2nd am vazut c\u0103 \u0219i presedin\u021bii mint, nu doar pl\u00e2ng, c\u0103 salariul se \u00eenjum\u0103t\u0103\u021be\u0219te sau dispare cu tot cu locul de munc\u0103, \u00een timp ce ratele noastre pocneau de dolofane, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ne \u00eendrept\u0103m privirea peste gard. Socoteam ce rude ori ce prieteni ne-ar putea ajuta s\u0103 ie\u0219im din mocirla \u00een care eram \u0219i am \u00eenceput, mai timid, apoi cu disperare, s\u0103 strig\u0103m dup\u0103 ajutor.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Cred c\u0103, \u00een nici doi ani, dintr-un grup de vreo 20 de oameni ce crescuser\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 la bloc, au mai r\u0103mas acas\u0103 vreo 5. Restul ne-am \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit prin Italia, Spania, Anglia, Danemarca sau Norvegia. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Unii dintre noi aveam deja copii, al\u021bii i-au n\u0103scut prin \u021b\u0103rile \u00een care s-au a\u0219ezat, la ceilal\u021bi urmeaz\u0103. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dup\u0103 <strong>genera\u021bia noastr\u0103,<\/strong> care a crescut <strong>cu cheia la gat<\/strong> \u0219i s-a maturizat cu pa\u0219aportul \u00een acela\u0219i loc, urmeaz\u0103 genera\u021bia copiilor no\u0219tri. Rom\u00e2ni la origine, englezi, italieni, spanioli, norvegieni sau danezi dup\u0103 cet\u0103\u021benie \u0219i educa\u021bie. Nu pot spune c\u0103 am mari regrete, nici nu simt vreo mare bucurie. E via\u021ba, cu tot ce-\u021bi d\u0103 ea.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P.S. \u00centr-o zi, b\u0103iatul meu m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 e bine c\u0103 are un prieten polonez \u00een clas\u0103. I-am spus: e foarte bine, c\u00e2nd eram mic, polonezii mi-au aruncat bomboane din ma\u0219in\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Crescut, p\u00e2n\u0103 pe la vreo opt ani, \u00een comunism, prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd am priceput c\u0103 se poate pleca \u0219i-n alte \u021b\u0103ri a fost pe la \u00eenceputul anilor &#8217;90. Eram prea mic \u0219i nici nu auzisem vorbind, \u00een cas\u0103 sau \u00een grupul de prieteni, despre rom\u00e2ni care plecaser\u0103 sau fugiser\u0103 \u00eenainte de Revolu\u021bie (sau &#8220;revolu\u021bie&#8221;, cum [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13875,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1322],"tags":[],"business_case_studies_tags":[],"class_list":["post-13874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-viata-in-strainatate"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/colaj-evenimente-LSRS-1-decembrie1.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13874","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13874"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13874\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13875"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13874"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13874"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13874"},{"taxonomy":"business_case_studies_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.wpvip.tgalpha.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/business_case_studies_tags?post=13874"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}